1. Have you ever been to some place that make you think it is the best place in the world?
2. Have you ever met someone that make you feel He/she is the only person to you that no one can be replace?
3. Have you ever eaten any food that make you feel it is the most delicous food in the world?
well...I am sure you have, especially for number two. It is true that after you get close to someone, you really like them and you don't even want to imagine livining your life without that person or that group of people. You don't really know whether or not you could live without them. That is the foolish idea indeed.
For those who felt that way is those who know very few people. If only you try to know more people, you'll find out that, there are many good people out there that you never known they exist. Sometimes you'll realized that the person that you used to be happy with and get along really well with, is not the person that you are looking for. So, try to think about what kind or what type of person that you like, who would be perfectly fit with your thought. Create an imaginary person, a type of person that you wish they exist in this world, the type of person who has personality that you are looking for, and if you can actually met that person, you would know how it feels like. Taking myself as a perfect example, I used to be with a group of friends when I were a kid. Those friends are who I always wanted to be with, to play with and they are the people that I enjoy being with. Because the class was small, only 13 or 15 students in one class so the whole class are friends and we often went everywhere together. Suprisingly, nowaday, I feel uncomfortable being with them and I realized that they are not my type. Probably because I've met more people and those people I met are always better that the previous one. From these, I can see that there are many many people out there whom I might really like them because they are my type or simply they are who I am looking for.
2. Have you ever met someone that make you feel He/she is the only person to you that no one can be replace?
3. Have you ever eaten any food that make you feel it is the most delicous food in the world?
well...I am sure you have, especially for number two. It is true that after you get close to someone, you really like them and you don't even want to imagine livining your life without that person or that group of people. You don't really know whether or not you could live without them. That is the foolish idea indeed.
For those who felt that way is those who know very few people. If only you try to know more people, you'll find out that, there are many good people out there that you never known they exist. Sometimes you'll realized that the person that you used to be happy with and get along really well with, is not the person that you are looking for. So, try to think about what kind or what type of person that you like, who would be perfectly fit with your thought. Create an imaginary person, a type of person that you wish they exist in this world, the type of person who has personality that you are looking for, and if you can actually met that person, you would know how it feels like. Taking myself as a perfect example, I used to be with a group of friends when I were a kid. Those friends are who I always wanted to be with, to play with and they are the people that I enjoy being with. Because the class was small, only 13 or 15 students in one class so the whole class are friends and we often went everywhere together. Suprisingly, nowaday, I feel uncomfortable being with them and I realized that they are not my type. Probably because I've met more people and those people I met are always better that the previous one. From these, I can see that there are many many people out there whom I might really like them because they are my type or simply they are who I am looking for.
The same case happen to those who LOVE someone so much that would even suicide without that person. That is absolutely ridiculous. How can you live before you know that person? just live the same way as you used to.So, be possitive to everything around you and give yourself a chance to know more people BUT you must also be selective. Don't just want to know more people and then fall under their trap or trick. Be more selective like i said the person that you are looking for must be the good one so if they are not a good person then that person is not who you are trying to find.
Coming up next...(My ideal person)
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There are plenty of wonderful people for you out there, Sita. All you have to do is just to decide whether you want to walk pass by or to warmly welcome them to be apart of your immediate cycle. Anyone that your heart can feel the connection within.
I'm glad to have known you, and to me, you are one of the special people that I can't afford to forget. You filled my life with joys and excitements, and I am so glad to have called you "my friends" "princess friend" , you name it *hug*
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